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Free stuff. Sexy free stuff.

Posted in BDSM, Feminist Sex, porn, Shopping with tags , , , , on June 17, 2010 by girlonpiano

Kind of a random picture, but breasts are always a good choice! And no, they aren't Lilly's

To celebrate her 2 year blogiversary, my calendar sister Dangerous Lilly is giving away some awesome free stuff.  MauiKink, Good Vibrations, Kink Academy, and a few others are sponsoring this, so you’re not gonna want to miss it. There’s several ways to enter, so go check it out and get your SEXY on!!  FREE STUFFFFFFF

100 Divas

Posted in BDSM with tags , , , , , , on June 17, 2010 by girlonpiano

So if you’ve been to South Plains Leather Fest in the last few years, you’ve probably crossed paths with the sassy and sexy Lolita Wolf, who presents on a whoooole lot of different topics (too many to name here, but check her site for descriptions).   I’ve met her a few times- once in Portland, and a couple of times in Dallas. She probably remembers me best as the crotch that supported Lamalani’s boot, but other than that,  I’m juuuust not on her radar. Yet.

Lolita blogs at www.LeatherYenta.com, and she has a list on her blog called “100 Divas.” Her goal is to name and spank 100 Divas (of any gender, orientation, or identity).  Although it’s been a secret wish for a while, I am hereby openly announcing to the universe MY goal to make it on her list and be spanked!

If you know me, you know I hate receiving spankings (although I’m happy to give them!), but I would totally take one from lovely Lolita. I’ve got the Diva part covered already, I just gotta get her to notice me. So, universe, MAKE IT SO!!

Support bondage, because it supports you!

Posted in Activism, BDSM, Crazy/Funny, Photo Phun with tags , , , , , on June 17, 2010 by girlonpiano

Our good friend Master Olivier (executive co-producer of ILSb/ICBB) just got his magnetic bondage ribbon! Way to support your community, Sir!

NYC Sex Bloggers Calendar

Posted in Activism with tags , , , , , , on June 2, 2010 by girlonpiano

Great news for SiP lovers – our very own girlonpiano is going to be featured in the NYC Sex Bloggers Calendar! The release party will be the first weekend in October, so mark your calendars and get ready to have some of the hottest sex bloggers, sex activists, and sex workers hanging out with you throughout the year. Keep up with calendar and party updates on their website, or add them on twitter @nycsexblogcal.

Congrats to all the other featured bloggers – be sure you check out their websites:

Bad Bad Girl

Brandon B

Coy Pink

Dangerous Lilly

Essin’ Em

Gloria Brame

Jiz Lee

Luna

Matthew Lawrence

Max Lagos

Mollena Williams

Nina Hartley

Radical Vixen

Sexy Sadie

Sovereign Syre

Whipsmart

Posted in BDSM, Feminist Sex, Shopping with tags , on March 8, 2010 by paigetsindfw

A short one for once. Can you believe it?

I have deep reservations and criticisms about this work and would love to corner the author sometime for a long talk and caffeine fueled debate over 21st century sex work, but I’ll spare both you and her.

Available now at Amazon and pretty much anywhere books aren't being burned

The writer, a Sarah Lawrence grad and teacher up at SUNY Purchase, spent four years as a professional dominatrix while working on her undergraduate degree. This book tells the story. I may not dig everything here and cringe a little during her interviews (through no fault of the writer’s own, I should add), but I am 100% percent behind people in stigmatized work, especially sex work, getting their stories out there. I applaud her and hope that’ll be echoed by stampedes of folk going to buy her book. Find out all about Melissa Febos here. Buy the book here.

Smoking = Sucking

Posted in BDSM, Crazy/Funny with tags , , , , , , , , , , , , , on February 25, 2010 by Chase

Or so says this new French anti-smoking campaign from the Association for Nonsmokers’ Rights- the tagline reads “Smoking means being a slave to tobacco”

The hand on the back of the head is a really nice touch, you have to admit. But I think this campaign might backfire spectacularly, what with how common submission fantasies are, especially among the orally fixiated.

Speaking of oral, this isn’t the first time smoking and blowjobs have collided

But it leaves me wondering, if this group is about the rights of nonsmokers, why would they care what goes on between consenting adult smokers and horny corporations?

HT: Huffpo

Protect the Children (from disingenuous homophobes)

Posted in BDSM, porn, Videos with tags , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , on January 25, 2010 by Chase

Another well reasoned argument from Rob Tisinai, who blogs at wakingupnow.com.

Check out our previous post featuring another one of his videos, or one of my personal faves:

Gay Marriage = Religious Freedom

If you watch “Protect the Children” far enough you’ll notice Rob quotes Peter LaBarbera, President of the anti-gay group Americans for the Truth About Homosexuality. But we know him better by his nickname, “Porno Pete”, which was bestowed upon him due to his favorite hobby: going to Leather events like IML or the Folsom Street Fair, in order to scowl and point and take lots and lots of pictures of every ass crack he sees. Check ’em out, you might see someone you recognize! (I did)

You see, it’s Pete’s personal mission to provide the internet with continual coverage of just how nasty and filthy those damn queers are. As if the internet had no idea…